Confidential, discrete consultations for individuals and couples, ready to explore what is beneath the surface.
A space to be truly seen, heard and healed.
You've lived like this for many years and may have built a life that looks good from the outside, but something under the surface still feels off. You have toiled for what you have, you've been hurt often along the way, but you've kept it moving. You are now tired of pretending that everything is okay; what you usually do is no longer working and you are now seeking a new way. Deep down, you feel it is time to slow down, to look within and start to perhaps put your real self first.
It is possible you wonder if there is someone out there who can 'get it'. Everyone is talking about 'go to therapy' but where do you even start with a complete stranger? You may have searched for a Black British therapist online or Therapy for Black People UK but how do you know who is real?
I am Sade, I am as real as it gets, and I offer you my highly confidential online service. As a qualified Black African female therapist in the UK, I provide compassionate, culturally aware counselling and psychotherapy tailored to your unique needs. I am a registered and accredited psychotherapist and counsellor, and I offer support to adults navigating a range of emotional and psychological difficulties.
How I work
My therapeutic approach is Integrative: Psychodynamic, Person-Centred and Attachment-based. What this means is that I look at problems, feelings and behaviours through the lens of their origins while we work on what is going on for you in the moment. I tailor this approach to who you are, not just what is written in the text books. I aim to build a relationship with you and be a person that you can trust and be vulnerable with. This way, you can speak from the heart, begin to feel safe in sharing what has happened to you and where you want to go.
I listen deeply, not just to what you are saying but how you are saying it, the clues from your nervous system, your facial expressions, your culture, family history and the stories you have been told about yourself. I listen to myself also, as I receive clues from you as to how you may be feeling beneath the words.
With me, you can finally let it out, you can stop performing and start feeling. You can start to speak your truth, no matter how odd it sounds to you and other people and start to trust your own self with your life.
We will go at your pace, no pressure and no pretence.
What I offer
Are you looking to be supported in understanding yourself and making meaningful change in your life?
Are you going through the type of difficulties you feel could have been prevented and wonder why you find yourself in that place over and over again?
Do people see only one side to you while knowing there is a deeper side that no one sees?
I offer therapy to adults for the navigation of:
Relationship struggles such as: Patterns of unhealthy relationships, Attachment, Finding a mate, Peer Relationship issues, Trust issues, Abandonment issues, Marital and Premarital issues, Domestic Abuse, Family Conflict, Affairs and betrayals, Separation and Divorce, Reconciliation and repair...
Personal emotional and psychological difficulties: Loneliness, Grief, Loss, Self Esteem, Stress, Anxiety, Career Guidance, Coping Skills, Mental or emotional exhaustion, Fertility and Infertility, Medical treatment support, Parenting, Miscarriage, Pregnancy, Prenatal and Postpartum support...
Next stages: Life plans, Transitioning phases of life, directions to take...
Issues of identity: Racial Identity, Cultural Identity, Multi-environment identity, Sexuality...
Busy and high functioning people who look 'great' but feel: Imposter Syndrome, Low Self Esteem, Self Doubt, Confusion...
Upbringing, childhood experiences including childhood trauma...
Black British, African and Mixed / Multi Race clients who want culturally competent and affirming therapy
Couples seeking to approach their relationships consciously and healthily, to reconnect, communicate better or work through unhealthy patterns (workshop based)
I offer this service to 18+ individuals via self-referrals, employee assistance programs, production companies, Insurance companies and other organizations.
If you would like to book counselling or therapy for friends or family, they would need to contact me themselves before we can work together. Please ask them to contact me on my contact us page.
Why Choose Me?
I am a highly trained and accredited psychotherapist with thousands of hours of client work: With advanced clinical qualifications, evidence-based practice and a deep understanding of cultural contexts, you'll receive expert care that is both professional and personal.
Therapy that sees the full picture: I work with people who have carried a lot through life (and still do). My approach honours your complexity, emotional world and your ambition without ignoring the blind spots. I am warm, non-judgemental and highly professional with deep cultural awareness.
Rooted in integrity, depth and connection: Here, the surface-level talk is to warm us up. We go deep, gently and at your own pace. However way you come, you'll be met with care and professionalism.
Realness and honesty: As your therapist, I will probably roll my eyes just as you are about to, because I get it, and I will be honest with it.
Accessible across the UK via secure Zoom link: No matter where you are, be it Scotland or Surrey, London or Leicester, Lagos or Barbados, you can access therapy with me via confidential Zoom sessions.
"I am not here to fix you. I am here to help you understand yourself more fully and to accept yourself more wholly so that you can move towards the kind of life you truly desire"
What to expect
Our individual therapy sessions take place online via Zoom, offering flexibility wherever you are
Our sessions are weekly (occasionally fortnightly, depending on your needs)
Our sessions last 50mins and are held at UK time
Fees & Booking
Individual therapy: from £80 per session
Single session therapy (one-off session): from £110 per session (60 mins)
Couples therapy: from £120 per session (60 mins)
Workshops: Information on Workshop page
Next Step
You can book a free 15-minute consultation to tell me what your needs are, to hear how I work and to see if we are a good fit. This 15-minute call is by phone (GSM or WhatsApp).
If you are ready to start therapy, I am excited to work with you!
Fill in the contact form by clicking the link below or here, and I'll get back in touch with you. I aim to respond within 48 hours so if you haven't seen my email, please look in your junk folder.